I have FiOS 75/35 with an Actiontec Rev I router.
If I run a test with the speedtest.net app on an iPad 2 in the same room as the router, I get 42 mb/s down and 30 mb/s up.
That's a little better than what you're experiencing but still not as good as I see on a Windows laptop or a MacBook Pro in the same location. With either of those other devices I max out at slightly over 75/35 mb/s.
I'm assuming the issue is a hardware limition in the iPad 2.
Afterthought....
I get almost exactly the same results with my iPhone 5s.
Our results do sound similar. For me, the speeds I get on the iOS devices are good enough for what I used them for, and we all know that Steve's legacy was to not allow any performance tweaking of those devices.
have you seen this thread?
https://discussions.apple.com/message/15065064#15065064
re: Hubrisnxs: I absolutely did see that thread and know it well. I am not sure if you are familiar with that thread or found it via search to reply here but it concentrates on the QoS/MMS issue I mentioned in my original post. They do wander on that thread but I was there early on in my testing and covered everything and explained that in my op. Thank you for the effort, let us know if you find anything else.
Here is a shot in the dark http://osxdaily.com/2011/12/16/slow-iphone-wi-fi-speed-up-with-custom-dns/
It's my understanding that the orignal poster was interested in faster throughput, upload and download, as indicated in a speedtest. Changing DNS servers won't do anything to help those speeds.