I've finally got my Charge bluetooth to connect AND download the phone book through my Kia's sound system. Instead of stopping the Pbab Service, as others have suggested, I stopped theOPP Server service and then started my car. The phonebook transferred within 10 seconds and I was able to make voice activated calls by name. I was ready to return the Charge because I spend much too much time in my car to not have voice activated calling through my bluetooth system. I had also stopped the Pandora and Skype bluetooth as a precaution but I'm not sure I needed to.
Hope it works for others having this problem also.
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