So I restarted the phone after Slacker and Facebook were lagging and eventually freezing and once it restarted it was stuck on the white HTC screen. Pulled the battery a couple of times, still only goes as far as that HTC screen and remains there.
So I took out the battery again, put it back in and did the power/volume down deal and got the white screen w/ the androids skateboarding (sure there is a name for that screen) tried all the options (fastboot, recovery, factory reset) and the phone just powers off. The phone battery was in the 80's before I first started it but plugged it up to the wall charger just in case, still only turns off when in the alternate screen and only goes to the white HTC screen when powered up normally.
I blame the software update...NOT ONE ISSUE before the update, all of a sudden, battery drain, slow speeds, data drop (minimal to be fair) and that stupid VLA issue. Now I am without a phone...thanks a pantload Verizon and HTC!