My ex is the primary account holder on my account. He refuses to let me off it, presumably so he can still control me, have an excuse to maintain contact, and threaten to turn my service off, etc. I called Verizon and they said there was nothing they could do without his permission. I went into a Verizon store at another DA survivor's suggestion (she was able to get help) but the customer service rep was unsympathetic, refused to help, and would not even give me their manager's name. He told me to show up at a Verizon Corporate office and "beg someone." He told me my ex owns my number, and that for me to get my own account he needs to call Verizon and give Verizon permission for me to leave and establish my own account. I asked--what if I don't care about keeping my number, and I start a new plan, but this old plan is abandoned under my name with my information, would I still be liable for that legally and financially if my ex does decide to cut my service? That rep couldn't help me, he said he didn't know. I asked to talk to someone who did and he refused to give me his manager's name, or anyone else's name who could help me. I was so humiliated I cried. I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me?
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I am in this exact situation. PLEASE HELP ME
Rheather84, we're so sorry to learn that you're experiencing a similar situation, and we know it's important to be aware of your options. We'd love to gather more details to ensure we do everything we can to help. To better assist, we'll be sending a Private Note.
~Izzy
I'm trying to get away from my ex but they are holding my number saying I owe them. I had moved my number from my mother's account to their account when we got together but are splitting ways and they don't want to give me my number back please help.
We definitely want to provide some assistance with your concern. We'll be sending a private messag.e~Peter
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I don't know the specifics of what happens if you get a new number in a completely separate account, if your ex decides to not pay the bill on your current line which is in a shared account, but it seems like with the other person being the account manager, don't they have to pay the bill until they decide to disconnect the line, and any outstanding balance would still go to them? Because that's what I've been seeing from others posting about other issues elsewhere in the forums.
May just be me, but I'd say getting a completely new number so an ex can't get a hold of it to control you isn't such a bad idea anyway. Wishing anyone who is in such a situation the best of luck and may you have support from your loved ones and friends.
Sorry to hear what you're dealing with there. I would get a new account on DIFFERENT CARRIER. It would mean getting a new phone number, but you would have a number that your ex doesn't have. As far as your contacts, if you know your ex's favorite username and password, you can get your contacts from the account. You might even be able to remove your phone from the account, but I would suggest a whole new number.
What phone have you been using since you left him? I would stick with that phone or get another one.
Good luck and STAY SAFE!
We are sorry to read that you are going through this difficult situation, as we know how important it is to be able to manage your number. In this case, it would be necessary to process a Transfer of Service, you can find more details through this link: http://spr.ly/6604bN4Ir We hope this information helps.
~Freddy
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