Outlook sync with Droid 3

[agsimpkins]

I am unable to get my Outlook to sync with my new Droid 3.  I've spent the last 3 hours looking thru internet search, Vz support, Microsoft support and Motorola support.  I have a friend who uses a $50 app for this, is there anything else?  I love the phone so far but I have to delete messages, update contacts and my calender once on my Outlook and again on my phone.  I had a Blackberry before this.  Love the Android features but really miss the sync with my Blackberry.  HELP!!  Thanks.

[Wildman]

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