your in the same boat as the rest of us. We are all waiting on our phones that we ordered. You just have to be patient.
I pre-ordered my iphone 7+ matte black 128GB on 9/10 with an original ship date of 10/12. The good news is the orders appear to be shipping a little sooner than expected as my CC was just charged last night. From reading other posts, I'm expecting shipping info within the next 2 days and my phone most likely will be here by the end of the week. Will be here probably about a week early.
Depending on what you ordered style, color, storage size will all factor into when your phone gets delivered. If your original ship date is way out, I suggest you keep an eye on the inventory at your local apple store or best buy stores as I have seen some of those are stocking phones that you can go in and pick up. Unfortunately for me they did not have the phone that I wanted so I just had to patiently wait for mine.