I'm sorry to read about the trouble. We will help resolve this. Is this a change or has it always been this way? You are using the correct step. If you aren't up to date on software, you can perform the update. If you are you can try a master reset after backing up contacts and pictures http://vz.to/Kpc0r3. Please keep us in the loop.
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