I hope your wife is liking her new iPhone. We'd be happy to investigate the picture messaging issue. There should be no reason why you're receiving a "picture message loading" error. Let's gather some more details to find out whats happening. Does this is only happening on certain picture messages? Have you noticed any patterns? Does she have iMessage turned on or off?
Please fill us in on these details. Thanks!
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