If your BDM doesn't have a "media" option then you may not have installed it when you originally set up BDM. You can download a new verison of BDM here. From the drop down box select Blackberry Desktop Software V5.0 then it's the fourth link down with the heading that says "Desktop Manager 5.0.0 B28 Multilanguage - With Media Manager"
Hope this helps.
Ohhh, you may be screwed b/c you're using a netbook which I'm guessing has an 8-10" screen on it. A little too portable for this application, do u have a regular computer or laptop you can try it out on?
A "Quickpull" a day keeps the lag away. PM me for a link to the download.
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