Is there any way for someone to view your messenger contacts and chats without having the phone in hand?? i know u can view texts and calls online but i need to know about messenger!
No, your Messenger contacts and chats can not be read by anyone else. I am not sure about that if you are on a BES corporate plan.
Doc is right ... BBM chats are not accessible without having the phone in hand if you're on a BIS/personal plan. While BBM conversations can be saved to your media card or device memory, they are not saved to your computer when you back up using Desktop Manager.
If on a BES/corporate plan, your employer can access your chats, calls, texts, browsing history, etc., if s/he chooses to do so.