I'm sorry your missing this widget. I love the command center feature. I know how frustrating this would be without it.
Unfortunately this widget isn't able to be downloaded twice. I would recommend a back up and hard reset to restore this widget. Here's how: http://support.verizonwireless.com/support/devices/knowledge_base.html/83492/
Please let me know if you run into any issues.
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