If your husbands iPhone 4S is associated with that Apple ID, then you could try removing it. Does your husband normally receive iMessages sent to you? Did you both have the same Apple ID for the 2 different phones? Normally, each iPhone will have its own Apple ID or else iMessages will get sent to both phones.
Do you have your iPad set up to use iMessage? That may be causing a problem, too. You could try turning off iMessage on the iPad if it is receiving the texts sent from iPhones to you.
What really bothers me about this issue is that clearly Verizon knows about it and nothing was said to me last week when I purchased the new Note 3 for my wife. Like many of you she came from a iPhone and now can't receive texts from selective other iPhones. My kids, as well as myself retain our iPhones, and we can exchange individual texts, but not a single text that contains multiple recipients.
After 3 different calls to support, all met with different anecdotal solutions, none of which have solved anything I bothered to look in the forums last night and see pages and pages of people with the same problem. I chose to upgrade my line for this new phone, and have since cascaded her old phone down to one of my kids. While I'm within the 14 day return. For the phone, now I'm forced to purchase a new device no matter what? Needless to say I'm pissed about the whole thing.
Never mind the real problem which is our multiple friends, acquaintances, and other business opportunities who continue to call and say "why won't you reply to my text", or "you must not want my business". Oh yea, selfishly it's me that has to sort all this BS out because what kind of husband would I be to give her a new phone, that's broken, out of the box, and tell her go fix it. Verizon gets a failing grade on this deal.
