Text messaging is the primary way I stay in touch with my friends and family as well! I would love to address your concerns with your message billing.
As Ann154 has already pointed out, if you're using the iMessage feature, these messages may not show on your Verizon bill message detail section. The reason being is that the iMessage feature uses either a WiFi or 3G connection to send and receive messages, instead of the standard SMS feature billed according to your text message plan. The messages sent as a standard SMS text will be the messages that will show in your text message details on My Verizon.
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