Oh wow, Loretta! Let's get your husband to enjoy these features on his phone. First, are you receiving any error messages on the phone with either iTunes or Facebook? Make sure all applications are closed http://bit.ly/TomdWF and reboot the phone. Uninstall and re-install Facebook again. If still having issues, let me know exactly what is happening when trying to access the applications.
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