SHirley930, with the iPhone 6s Plus you can also go into Settings > General > Accessibility and then turn Vibration to the OFF position.
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Aside from what has been stated above, do you have the sound turned on? There is a toggle switch on the upper left hand side of the phone which will turn your phone ringer on/off. I have been known to accidentally flip that switch on/off in the past.