It's important you are able to make changes to your phone without it affecting your husbands phone, ScrapinAuntAnne. Let's discuss ways to ensure this is no longer happening. If you are sharing the same Apple Id, it will make changes to both devices. We would recommend creating a new Apple id and setting it up in one of the devices, http://spr.ly/6588DjTQA. Please let us know if this continues to happen after creating a new Apple id.
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