I can get the phone to ring and vibrate at the same time. But I want to have the phone vibrate then after 3 seconds to ring so that I have time to answer or send the call to voicemail without disturbing a meeting. I was told that I could make a ringtone that was delayed 3 seconds but I don't know how to do that yet. I also search for ringtone that are delayed 3 seconds but I haven't found one yet. Let me know if you have any other suggestions.