FYI, this issue popped up for the SOAK (test) group. We all saw it and kinda freaked some of us out. (MOTO didn't give a "progress" bar during this step, unfortunately.)
During the Gingerbread update/install, there will be a point when the DROID EYE comes up and just sits there for a long time ... like as much as 4 or 5 mins. Do NOT interrupt it! Just be patient and let it be. It will/should finish.