Are they not sending is this the case you might try resizing your pictures a bit or when you take them watch the size its kind of hard to do i had a little trouble with this myself but with a alittle practice i got the hang of it. Keep trying an hang in there you' ll get it going. B33
An in the new gingerbread update there is a few changes in the messaging an that might help there.
Here's the Link so you can check out the new changes in gingerbread.
http://support.vzw.com/pdf/system_update/incredible.pdf
Try rebooting....
Sounds like you got it covered with trouble shooting, have you contacted CS?
Makes me wonder if the tower was having issues , an you might try instead of *228 an then 2 *228 then 1 an see if this helps.
No problem it just poped up on my Inc but as usual i need to charge it an i wrote down my unsaved apps when these updates come i just let it do its thing an then i go back to the Market an get my apps again. but i don't have a tonn of apps so its not a problem for me. And the update for you will problably be just around the corner. a suggestion Shut your inc. off an turn it back on
an sometimes doing that will get it to pop up.!
My INC is doing that exact same thing after getting a system update over the weekend.
oh....and i have this software update already.
4.08.605.15 710RD, for your DROID INCREDIBLE by HTC