If you want to manually update your phone, use the instructions in this link: http://www.droid-life.com/2010/08/03/manual-android-2-2-update-for-motorola-droid/
The 2.2 update was definitely slow in getting started (possibly delayed due to a change in build, IE they fixed a few bugs or other issues), but it is rolling out right now. You clearly aren't among the first people to get it, but that doesn't mean your phone won't get the update.
Perhaps you could post a link to this reputable site that has reliable information that the Droid is not getting Froyo?
thats just rediculous, i know people who have gotten the update already and OTA , the way its released is whats is just silly.
Like I said in my earlier post.
Enough yacking and whining about when you're going to get froyo. Put your 'man pants' on and download it yourself!
Point your DROIDs browser here and follow the instructions carefully:
http://www.droid-life.com/2010/08/03/manual-android-2-2-update-for-motorola-droid/
This is so easy, even a caveman can do it.
Now stop being a drama queen.
~bladerunnin
{please keep your posts courteous} I have seen the update.