Wildthingnana, congratulations on the new phone! I use my phone to listen to music all the time so I know how important it is to be able to transfer your music files to your phone.
I have a great link that will show you how to transfer the music file from your PC to your Incredible. Visit http://bit.ly/zB79go for the steps.
Keep me posted if you need further assistance.
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