After lenghty discussions with both my local VZW store and a telephone customer service rep, it appears that the discontinuing of the Eris in May and the impending release of the Incredible, has made the Eris upgrade unnecessary. While neither would not come out and say that it was cancelled, both said not to count on getting the software update for the Eris, ever.
Which lead me to my next question to them, what is Verizon planning on doing for those customers like myself, that bought the Eris with the promise of the update? Both have said that there is nothing that they can do to assist me. All I asked for was to sell me the Incredible at the NE2 price, both declined to help.
But thanks to The Consumerist, http://consumerist.com/ , they have phone numbers and e-mail addresses for individuals in Verizon's Executive Relations Department, I have already started my complaint campaign to Verizon. All I want is to get what I was promised when I bought my Eris, an HTC phone with Android 2.0 (or 2.1 in this case), Google Navigation etc.